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late at night when all the world is sleeping told ya late at night always do some stupid thing to my under-educated brain. cia said that she read in 17 mag that not arguing with parents in the long run will promote trust. How true is that? Some parents may take for granted. eg: like they realise that you realise that you have accepted the way that they deal with you. or second: they may just simply assume that this is the norm and you should have always suit to them. and thirdly: in the long run, (if you have suffer all the while by shutting up ) you may continue to suffer or you may go crazy and decide to run away from home. because according to logic. no one is happy when things are not done their way. and one is definately go crazy when time and time again when you dont get things done the way you like it to be. the best solution is to compromise. and this, parent and child have to talk it out. and not all parents are that compromising. so when you are stuck with that kind of parents, you have to fight it out. and the more you fight the more gap it causes. so talking is the best way. to let your parents know what you are feeling and tell them your grieveness. and make them tell you about theirs. if cannot, consult a family therapist? but then again, chinese styled family like mine will never agree to go. we dont wash dirty linens in public, they say this scrolls down to just the conventional singapore. like i said. i dont know what are parents problem nowadays. did they really forget their childhood? did they forget how to treat people truthfully? because we all know in the outside world, it is best not to be as real. but that is what the children needs. i dont know. surprising how some mothers could remember many things from her childhood and share them with her children. no dont bother my mom's not that era. haha. :| and junior is finally online!!! after one whole month? damn, wonder what the hell had he had been doing. he claims he has been studying. but he's all the way in brazil. like i am gonna find out or something? hahaha. milan won pippo and nesta scored. :D i am really happy. -urghs- milan won 2-0 btw. i am still angry at empoli for breaking milan perfect home record. hahaha. :D nesta scored his second goal of the season. lalalalalaa. :D what i am really really happy is that the first goal came in before the 20th minite. it came at the 10th minute in fact. and stuff like this have not happened after that phenomal start of the season form. milan used to score before the 15th minute in the 1/4 of the season. until that form ditched milan. and now. it comes back. and next week is Inter - Milan. and inter just drawed today... lalalalala. :D i watched 'all about lovin you' six times in a row? haha. obsessed again. | video | seal : kiss from the rose | 2:55 am powered by blogger |
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